Karen - just a note to let you know I'm thinking of you at this time. Shirley was a lovely person - I enjoyed working with her and admired her professionalism at work. I always felt she complimented Dr. Chande, but don't tell him I said that! It's such a hard time to go through losing a parent, especially a mother. You must have many memories that you will often remember her by. I'm glad she got to eat the rhubarb dessert she enjoyed so much and I will make it again next year for you. Take care and hopefully will see you again - Diane