I met Mervin in Leuven, Belgium. He told me that he loved to danse. We dansed thogether, had some wine and had a lot of talks. I was there when he became a chapelan. After his return to Canada, Calgary we wrote still a few letters. I always wantend to visit him in Canada with my husband. I was shocked when I googled him and read this. He wrote once on a card "yesterday we met, today we touched and our hearts will never be the same" I'm sure that this happend with a lot of people. I feel so sorry for your lost.