My condolences to the Ella family. Death issomething that we never get use to. In fact, God's word refer to it as an enemy as 1 Corinthians 15:26 says: as the last enemy death is brought to nothing. Yes the last enemy that God and Jesus will get rid of is death because they love us and know the pain that death brings to families. So please go to God and taste and see that he is willing and able to strengthen you to go through any circumstances that may arise. I hope these facts bring you and your family some comfort during your difficult time ahead.